After just three weeks at home I realized that I am still very much a traveller, that I wasn't ready to quit yet, but that I needed to take a different approach. I needed a travel companion.
Contrary to common belief, I have always wanted a travel companion. I'd just never found a long-term one. And, of course, when I say long term, I mean really long term; indefinite really.
So, I set about finding one. I searched online in every possible forum I could find, and I found one on Lonely Planet's Thorn Tree (Travellers Forum).
He had a post basically saying what he was doing, and it was an itinerary that really suited me: overlanding south in South America.
I've always wanted to go overlanding in the Americas, but its something I felt I needed a travel companion for. You can find a definition for overlanding on Wikipedia, but basically it's driving a vehicle, set-up for sleeping, over really long distances. And going back to South America is good for me because it's part of the world I'm quite comfortable with.
Meeting a stranger to travel with?
People reactions to this are either: "you're meeting a stranger, are you crazy?, what if..."
Or: "that's awesome... I can tell he's going to be the one!!!!"
In reply to the first one: I honestly believe that most people in the world aren't dangerous, and that he is looking for a travel companion.
In reply to the second one: I'm just looking for a travel companion.
My only thought is to whether we will get along, but for that I feel like I'll never know unless I go. It's South America, I'll make a Plan B if I need to (remember it's part of the world I am comfortable with.)
My new travel companion is from Belgium.
I meet him in Argentina next week.
There is always going to be risk when meeting new people. However, if you don't take risks then you suffer the loss of potential opportunities which itself of course is a risk! It's always a good idea to have plan B tucked up your sleeve... but otherwise... go for it!
ReplyDeleteHey Ali, I think Jason is right. Go for it. I hope for you to have a great time. I think of you. Karolin
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